Re the little girl abducted in portugal.?

Am I being harsh? I feel like yelling at the telly everytime this comes on the news, what were they thinking of leaving a 3 year old and 2 babies in a room on their own? My heart goes out to them they must be going through a living hell. It never ceases to amaze me though the amount of children that go missing that aren't being watched - I know you can't watch your child 24 hours a day but I feel this was very irresponsible. And for those who are going to tick me off, I am a Mum with 2 children and I would never leave my kids unattended and I am only saying what everyone else is thinking!!